What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a loving touch loaded with attention and presence, without a standard form and established result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Of course, always with respect for (shared) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Psychologically, physically, at heart level and in some cases even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, overjoyed state of being. The impact is typically a wonderful physical, mental wellness. Normally, the receiver is very relaxed, wonderfully flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
Tantra massage is given from the heart. A lot of touch will take place through the hands (or body to body) it is really like that touches. The recipient is likewise present, and receives active and likewise feels (eventually) from the heart.
Complete of attention and presence throughout tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your full attention is on giving or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever know how it will end up. It is not the method or the preferred series of rubbing that is very important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the minute? Exactly what benefits her/him? Love knows what to do, like constantly has a suitable response. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required. Sufficient is that the giver is present and keeps tuning into his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine also has its own plan, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore often take a really surprising course. Everything suits a bigger whole. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness. A "stopped working" massage can be the initial step in a terrific development.
The best ways to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, but since the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear limits beforehand
Everyone (other than when you are informed) has his limits. This is human and is also essential (read the article on securing limits. So think ahead of time (both as giver and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear borders ahead of time: about mental boundaries, as well as make sure for clarity about physical borders. It is a mistaken belief that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also completely okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received many tantric massages only on the head. Likewise, in addition, in fact each cell is sensual, however you will be amazed.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let flow easily
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the main part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the entire body takes part and erotic zones can also be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) borders. When triggering life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function once again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of fundamental/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ instinctive energy.
Concentrated on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually leading to a wonderful physical, psychological wellness
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is generally nice, often tasty. We, for that reason, welcome you to fully enjoy receiving ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are many kinds of massage. Obviously, all massages have particular practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (focused on pleasure fulfillment).
* (Body) treatment (targeted at healing).
Relaxation is a fundamental part of tantric massage, but of a totally different order than relaxation massage Why? Well because you are truly super energetic during/after the massage. You do not drop off to sleep (unless you are extremely worn out), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sexual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research study or sexual satisfaction, we would call it various. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a kind of fashion nowadays to see tantra massage as a therapy, however therapy is an occupation apart. Tantra massage definitely has recovery results, but that is not an end in itself.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the post on the essentials of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage ideas-- before you start
* Create a warm, confutable tantric massage space (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, but likewise mentally).
* Make clear agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- throughout the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is useful reference demand totally free, don't push or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and distribute it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* From time to time ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Give feedback (satisfaction sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves find enjoyable, fun, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a giver you can also enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. Forget your own "needs", remain away from your own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is required! Once again, do not attempt to enforce anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to what the recipient requirements. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are disappointed when somebody goes to sleep. You may not be waiting for a psychological cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No desired result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take sufficient time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Require time to exchange your experiences.
* Recognize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not immediately go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work to an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it usually is however there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy flow.
* Regard boundaries, set clear borders beforehand. Our masseuses are primarily really open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, obviously. Nevertheless, know that it can end up in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being aroused is normal and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are really essential! A lot can show up.
* Look out to restored freezing moments. Avoid limitations from being crossed again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Taking pleasure in the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment sounds) and offer integration moments (simply doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, however recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we imply do not hurry towards the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it ends up being quiet in your head (in some cases completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible recovery effect. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release may heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it is like to love yourself.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a great deal of energy suggests that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies. With the love transformation, you may become not only happy however even euphoric. A thrilled state of being is possible. The more you give up, the better you will feel.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Loaded with attention and presence.
* The entire body participates.
* Energetic massage, consisting of sexual energy.
* Without standard form, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) boundaries.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Concentrated on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Typically resulting in a terrific physical, psychological wellness (of both).